I remember when I started talking to girls on the phone, talking to friends of voice-to-people. Some adults in my life didn’t think too much in my life that it was that it was … it was different from different.

I get comments, “Oh, you’re talking to girls already, goose?”, And “Slow, big man. Don’t get it very quick soon,” And “Od, that is a cute, a small woman man.”

I’m laughing and the nad first, not hold the idea. But after a while, I really began to feel bad about it. Like I was using, a child is not doing it by my age. A girl, no matter what.

Then I hit Middle schoolAnd the growing things are increasing. My friends worked me away, ask, “Likes”, and the rumor that I gave, that I gave, no matter what I gave.

Most of them, I can learn how to live and how to navigate. Includes of relationships. But watching it, I felt very quickly setting a message very quickly: boys and girls cannot be friends.

One mother recently visited Reddate to Reddate to refer to her son, he will no longer be friends with a girl to explain her son. And it’s their own fault.

Friendship by parents?

Who poses the mother under the post Jomonagar R / Parenting Substitudes gone to spend his son and his friend (both of his friends (both). Was in the process of he and another mother Planned plactionsOP wrote he received the following text:

“Hi (mine), after talking to my husband last night is not a small thing and hopes as a child and no way in any way.

OP was at the beginning, because she did not meet another mother in the school picnic and how to answer.

After receiving some suggestions in the comments, he decided to hear, “Listen to me (my son may be able to contact and do it in summer.”

Over then shares the response of another mother, text and phone calls tell the reasons why her husband’s discomfort. He writes that they understand the children, “Possible children do not see the same gender, but we cannot make our husband feel comfortable that cannot make my husband feel comfortable.”

After describing another exchange, eventually she removed contact information to her son’s friend, she had to comfort her and she didn’t do anything wrong.

Parents, do not damage

This reddit thread, which currently 625 comments is full of ideas. Many people send encouragement to the mother and her son, while others keep the heat to have sex to their children to friendship.

“Wow! That’s so frustrating. Sexism in such a young age,” writes to a smater.

“I have BA boys and it hurts me. All kinds of friends are important so that you actually write everything,” Write another thing, “Another thing writes everything.

Some say that a husband is watching women who feels bad to his wife and daughter.

Meanwhile, OP wax is clearly perspective, writing, “I will surely continue Let my son be friends with girlsSo they grow that they are not only sexual sexual goods. He will How to be sympatheticHow to communicate respectfully, and how to be inclusive. ”

That’s the key to me. Boys are more important to feel that it is more strange without being friends with girls. But, even makes sure we are the best way to destroy the beginnings of a healthy relationship in the wrongdoing.

Children, maybe your age or gender, something else to do anything else – to lead to something – if something else can make us uncomfortable. And if the relationship is finally developed, they don’t have to learn at least one another as a person instead of an object? We are living with more compliance. But how can we expect this to cross this way?

While there are very valid reasons to manage the relationship and activities of our children, not helping our adult goods to table. We will forget that trying to find comfort can cause more harm than good.